tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2668756162872571497.post6624537446132625668..comments2023-07-30T15:43:31.655+03:00Comments on Headspace: FearKatriinahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08403719183047819222noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2668756162872571497.post-47043025831799120552022-12-26T10:35:35.103+02:002022-12-26T10:35:35.103+02:00Hi nice readiing your blogHi nice readiing your blogData Cabling Columbushttps://www.cabling-pros.com/us/georgia-cabling/data-cabling-columbus.shtmlnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2668756162872571497.post-23342021723182249612022-12-23T23:50:25.813+02:002022-12-23T23:50:25.813+02:00Lovely blog you hhaveLovely blog you hhaveData Cabling Columbushttps://www.cabling-pros.com/us/georgia-cabling/data-cabling-columbus.shtmlnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2668756162872571497.post-87928954954765188582021-08-31T04:59:36.143+03:002021-08-31T04:59:36.143+03:00兔費色情視頻直播間
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People like your MIL are such a great influence on panicky types like me - they teach us all to put things in perspective. When people (like you) are kind and considerate and respectful, small mistakes involving Tupperware should be overlooked! <br />btw, I only just figured out why you refer to your husband as "R2"! :) duh!!Katriinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08403719183047819222noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2668756162872571497.post-69970854174403891362012-05-03T18:22:23.879+03:002012-05-03T18:22:23.879+03:00Ohhhh...I made SO MANY mistakes when I first start...Ohhhh...I made SO MANY mistakes when I first started working in my current workplace, but I find that many people are really forgiving towards my mistakes, so I was thinking to myself, "Why do I beat myself up when they've probably forgotten my so-called failures?"<br /><br />But even without making mistakes, I learnt that you could still find the wrong things to say/do not because I do want to hurt that person. For example: one time I gave a compliment to a friend. I meant every single word I said, but she didn't take it too well 'coz in her mind, the quality that I mentioned was viewed negatively. From then on I realized that I can't please everyone and I'm bound to disappoint someone in my daily life (they may not let me know that I've done so, but still...) <br /><br />But anyway, now I think I've accepted that fact better than before. I must tell you that the compliment incident really opened my eyes. :-D THANK YOU SO MUCH for your kind words. I've been surrounded with SO many kind and thoughtful people and I'm trying to learn from them as best as I can. :-D I've got so many wonderful teachers along the way. :-D<br /><br />This is one example: <a href="http://ailema4ever.blogspot.com/2007/09/ruining-my-mother-in-laws-tupperware.html" rel="nofollow">Ruining My MIL's Tupperware</a>Amelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16792921371964029469noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2668756162872571497.post-20549085698342043472012-05-01T22:10:15.771+03:002012-05-01T22:10:15.771+03:00EmmaK, thanks so much for stopping by! You're ...EmmaK, thanks so much for stopping by! You're absolutely right about the need to step back and get perspective. A friend of mine who found herself stressed out at work (in IT) at one point started writing "No One Is Going To Die" at the end of her emails, to remind herself and her co-workers to keep things in perspective. It worked! :)Katriinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08403719183047819222noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2668756162872571497.post-34668788110021819362012-05-01T22:01:34.824+03:002012-05-01T22:01:34.824+03:00Amel, you seem like such a kind and thoughtful per...Amel, you seem like such a kind and thoughtful person that I can't believe you ever disappoint anyone. You're right, though, that no one can please everyone all of the time, and to be honest I think that's part of my whole fear of failure thing - I fear that my "performance" in given situations won't meet my expectations, or those of others. As you say, all we can do in life is to try our best. Our best might be something different depending on the day, and that's ok.Katriinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08403719183047819222noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2668756162872571497.post-69842484197958136872012-05-01T21:55:55.780+03:002012-05-01T21:55:55.780+03:00Karyn, you're so sweet. I wouldn't say I a...Karyn, you're so sweet. I wouldn't say I accomplish any of these things with aplomb, but I do really enjoy doing them, despite the dread with which I anticipate them! It's so nonsensical, really. I do love quiet moments at home, too, but after a while I itch to be out with other people, doing stuff!Katriinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08403719183047819222noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2668756162872571497.post-49797358406089563952012-05-01T21:47:47.415+03:002012-05-01T21:47:47.415+03:00I have to say that all this time I never realised ...I have to say that all this time I never realised I was increasing my brain plasticity :) <br /><br />Thanks so much for the recommendations you sent me about overcoming these fears. I'm working on it...Katriinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08403719183047819222noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2668756162872571497.post-34663461312404045722012-04-30T18:11:10.070+03:002012-04-30T18:11:10.070+03:00Oh I know how you feel. I hate answering the phone...Oh I know how you feel. I hate answering the phone and sometimes I get worked up by new challenges. But I have learnt to stand back a bit and say, well, what's the worst that can happen if I organize some social event? Someone says my food sucks hairy balls, so what? And it sort of puts it all in perspective. I am an introvert some days and an extrovert on other days - I sort of bounce from reclusiveness to excessive sociability every frew months - sort of bipolar mum I guess!MommyHeadachehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03924035710478459520noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2668756162872571497.post-62239748925216263942012-04-29T14:44:49.478+03:002012-04-29T14:44:49.478+03:00I have written a similar post about dreading The U...I have written a similar post about dreading The Unknown. I was born a planner and was raised by two planners. I used to plan my life years ahead. I saved up money for 3 years before I could finally go to Finland for the first time. Even a close friend of mine used to say how crazy it seemed for her - this planner mind of mine. Ever since I moved to Finland, though, I had started becoming more relaxed 'coz there was nothing I could have planned for - dunno when a Finnish course would start, dunno when I could get a job, etc. etc.<br /><br />However, I think in my case the fear of the unknown isn't due to fear of failure, but 'coz I don't want to disappoint people. Over time, though, I think I've started to let go of this ideal bit by bit 'coz I realize even more now that I can't please everybody no matter how much/hard I try. What matters most is just try to do my best and try to be as thoughtful as I can be. If that's not enough, then I can't do more than that and that's a fact I should just accept.<br /><br />Sorry, now I'm rambling here he he...anyhow, I LOVED the conclusion of this post and that everything worked out well in the end. I'm actually more like Elena. I'm not a people person and I get mentally exhausted if I spend too much time with other people that I don't know very well.Amelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16792921371964029469noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2668756162872571497.post-43113856772266996782012-04-28T13:17:18.560+03:002012-04-28T13:17:18.560+03:00I wish I had some words of wisdom here. I am the o...I wish I had some words of wisdom here. I am the opposite, I love to be home, reading, writing, working, cooking...whatever. Though I will attend social events and enjoy them marginally, I cant wait to get back to my home!! I do applaud you though, because you certainly take on tasks I wouldn't dream of - and obviously accomplish them with aplomb. Best of luck is about all I can say!Karynhttp://www.anobservantmind.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2668756162872571497.post-53125794030290642102012-04-27T04:31:07.473+03:002012-04-27T04:31:07.473+03:00I was wondering how you were going......I wanted t...I was wondering how you were going......I wanted to tell you that I was reading a book the other day about brain plasticity. It recommended one of the best things you can do as an adult to defer dementia, illness Alzheimers etc is to learn a foreign language! See- not only do you have to do it because you are immersed, but you are created positive changes in your brain at the same time!! lucky you! the rest of us need more time doing sudoku! lol.....<br /><br />I am sorry that you experience this fear. I think my son is pretty similar to you in this way. I know you will work through it, but as always, If you want any recommendations let me know.<br /><br />love<br /><br />KAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com